I wonder, with the advent of the internet and everything being 'virtualized', are we ourselves becoming more attached to the virtual world?
I have this very close friend with whom I have shared all my stories - joys and sadnesses - for the past many years. Now we are both busy with our lives, we don't get to meet as often as we used to, and of course the easy solution has been to keep in touch through emails and instant messaging. I've noticed very recently that of late we've become more comfortable having written conversations, than actual voice communication. When we talk over the phone, we are a little more laboured, thinking about exactly what we should be saying... whereas over the internet, with the written medium, we are much more free flowing with our thoughts... I wonder if that's just because we've changed as people as times have changed, or is it really because of the radical change in the medium? It's not really a question of the relationship having changed - we're as good friends today as we used to be... if not better today than before - it's just that the communication medium has changed drastically!
Are we becoming more comfortable not seeing someone's face, not hearing someone talk, as we have a 'conversation'? Are we, as a civilization, getting stuck to the monitor and the keyboard, using smileys to convey the emotions that once our facial muscles expressed, and gradually becoming more comfortable with the smiling yellow cartoon than with the human face that it has replaced?
It's personally a big relief that I still miss seeing the smile on my friend's face as we share an old joke... thankfully, I have yet not fallen, at least entirely, for the yellow thing with the big smile...
No Highway...
… Therefore, go forth, companion: when you find
No highway more, no track, all being blind,
The way to go shall glimmer in the mind.
Though you have conquered Earth and charted Sea
And planned the courses of all Stars that be,
Adventure on, more wonders are in thee.
Adventure on, for from the littlest clue
Has come whatever worth man ever knew;
The next to enlighten all men may be you…
- John Masefield
Thursday, October 4, 2007
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talk about being virtual! yes I think thats what we have become.Me more than any one else possibly.
*sad but wicked grin*-this is becoming idiosyncratic.
tor ki ajkal wicked grin-e peyechhe?? :-P
yeah like I said this is idiosyncratic. how come you didnt notice it when u were here in kolkata.*wicked grin*
Not me atleast....I communicate with my friends via net due to compulsion. Lack of time etc. etc. But I don't feel comfortable untill n unless I meet the person in reality or atleast listen to them. When I chat with my friends, I don't feel convinced whether they got the things correctly so I repeat the same things when I meet them or talk to them in reality. This world is deceptive, so they may get me wrong as same words have different meaning n it varies...
But this is true that I get bolder or more straight forward in the virtual world. I can say NO directly on ther face(their chat window)& I take advantages of this virtual media in a no. of ways! So it's 2 way round
This reminded me that logo test you once made me take, in which I fared miserably :P
About this post, its pointless telling you how much I agree. Because you know that. Maybe one day we will be able to have good long chats face-to-face, without you having to make long distance calls only to confirm if I was really speaking in Bangla or not :P
Insiya
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